Thursday, July 31, 2008
Thankful Thursday
I love Friday, because Friday is the day that I completely clean my house and do all of the laundry so that I can relax during the weekend. I don't love it because I clean, but I love it because when I am done my house is clean. Did that make sense?
I am also thankful for my husband's job because without it, I would not be able to be a stay-at-home mom. Okay, well I do work 2 days a week, but I still consider my job at home more of a job than my actual 'job'. His job has been very busy lately and he has been constantly called out every evening this week. That gets old and frustrating for both of us, especially when we are both tired. Oh well, the overtime pay will be a blessing and help us with our debt snowball.
For those of you who are not familiar with or are new Dave Ramsey fans, I will explain his 'Baby Steps' in tomorrow's blog. That's not a promise though, since my track record with blogging when I've said I will isn't just the greatest. :0) I'm off to spend some time with my hubby, unless of course he gets called out, again, for the 3rd time tonight.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Weird Wednesday - Money Saving Tip #7
Today has been a better day. I made the decision last night before I went to bed to handle myself appropriately, in a way that would be pleasing to the Lord, and I feel that I have done that. The rest is up to Him and in time I pray that I can be understood. I have still been a little bit - okay, ALOT emotional today. I have found myself ready to cry over little things. And to those of you who know me, NO I am not pregnant, even though that would seem to be a possible explanation for my emotions since I am an emotional basketcase for the first few weeks, okay well for my entire pregnancies. :)
Can't you just feel the love in that picture? No, that's not me and my hubby! But it does relate to my 7th money saving tip which is this - be a cheap date!! No, seriously! As a married couple with children, going out on dates or at least having alone time is really a vital part of a relationship. If my husband was reading this, he might die of laughter because this has been an area where I have struggled since our kids have been born. Yes, I am THAT mom who does not like to be away from my kids. However, I value and cherish my marriage and my husband enough to know that we need to have time where we can focus on our relationship and spend time with just each other. Going on dates when you're on a budget is not always practical, though. So enough of my rambling and onto my tips for saving yourself money and keeping you marriage healthy!
- Make your spouse's favorite dinner and have a candlelight dinner at your very own kitchen table. Turn off the TV, radio, or any other distractions and focus on each other. Trust me, we have done it and it is fun. Get out your prettiest tablecloth, your nicest dishes, a few candles and wah-lah! fancy dinner, for a fraction of the cost.
- Go on a picnic. Back when I was a working mom, my husband would sometimes bring me a picnic lunch on his days off. We would go to the park on my lunch break and sit by the creek and eat and talk. It was splendid, romantic, and sweet.
- Check out movies from the library or RedBox. I personally haven't used redbox yet, but the way I understand it is that it only costs $1 to rent a movie and you can have it for 24 hrs. The only thing is that you have to return it to the same location that you rented it from, which is usually a grocery store or walmart type store. (someone correct me if I'm wrong, please! ) Okay so I was wrong, you can return redbox movies to any redbox location, Thanks Alyssa! I do, however, make a weekly trip to the library. Our public library allows each card holder to check our 10 DVD's at a time and they are yours for a week. I usually pick out a few movies for the hubby and I to watch in the evenings after the kids go to bed.
- If you do go out to eat, by goodness, use a COUPON! Since I have become an avid couponer I have gotten the Sunday paper every single week. Each and every week there have been coupons for different restaurants. I have some for El Chico's, Olive Garden, Red Lobster and Taco Bueno. Okay, so Taco Bueno isn't exactly a date place, but I have a strange love for bueno that I have had to steer away from since becoming frugal because it is expensive for fast food. But, with coupons, it fits nicely back into our very small eating out budget.
- Don't waste money on things that you don't need. I will be honest, I love flowers. They are beautiful, and they make me feel all loved and girly and stuff. But they die, quickly. And they're expensive. So, my hubby and I have decided that when it's time to give gifts, we will be practical and buy each other things that we need and that we will use. Don't get me wrong, I love the Nintendo DS that he bought me for Valentine's Day 1 1/2 yrs. ago. It's pink, it's fun, and it's just plain awesome. But I rarely play it. So, my point is this...buy your spouse things they'll love, but also need and use.
Okay, so this post is long and wordy..sorry about that. It's probably because it's now 10:06 pm and my husband is still working! Argh! So tell me, my dear readers, what cheap date ideas do you have?
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Terribly Tired Tuesday
Matthew 5:43-48 says :
43"You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' 44But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
Perfect? Yikes. So basically, this passage is saying that even in my PMS filled, in-law annoyed, super exhausted state I am still supposed to be perfect? Gosh that's hard to swallow. Especially since I pretty much failed the test earlier tonight.
I love my family. Is that obvious? I hope so. They are truly my delight, my joy, and they light up my life with each of their individual personalities each and every day. With that said, I am very defensive of them. Probably overly defensive. My blood begins to boil when I feel that any of the 3 of them are being verbally attacked or put down in any way. So I snap. I go off. I am usually not terribly off base, but I do not put up with junk from anyone when it comes to protecting my kids or my husband from emotional pain. It's probably because I have been emotionally abused in the past and don't want the people that I love the most, that God has blessed me with, that I would give up my life for, to be hurt.
I pray that I will give this to God and that He will help me realize that HE will protect them from evil, and I cannot do it on my own. Using spiteful words does NOT glorify God, and that is what I strive to do each day. Glorify Him through my words, actions, and life. Period.
Lord help me to strive to be perfect like You. I know that I can never truly be perfect, but I pray that when situations arrive in the future, that I will handle them in a way that would please you.
I'm getting weepy, so I'm done. Tomorrow will be more upbeat. Prayerfully.
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Savings Saturday - Walmart and United


Friday, July 25, 2008
Fantastic Friday - Money Saving Tip #6

Friday, July 18, 2008
Finally Friday - Money Saving Tip #5
Since beginning our frugal journey, I have learned very quickly that we were not completely honoring God with our finances. While we are very faithful in giving, we still were being incredibly frivolous with the financial blessings God was giving us. It has definetely been a learning process, so when I logged onto biblegateway.com to look up another scripture and Psalm 119:7 was the verse of the day I thought it was exceptionally fitting in our situation. I know that this journey is only beginning and that it will not be easy, but I also know that God is sovereign and will bless us for putting him in charge of our finances. I pray that I will do this with everything and not try to be in control.

This is a photo of my backyard. HA! In mine and my kids' dreams! My fifth money saving tip is pretty simple, but one that can save mucho dinero. Take your kids to do things that are free. (or very cheap) As a stay-at-home mom, I know that there are days where I would pay a fortune just to get out of the house. Chances are, my kids probably feel the same way. No one wants to be cooped up in a house ALL of the time. I will be the first to admit that when it is over 100 degrees outside, I would much rather sit inside of a nice air conditioned establishment that has a play structure for children. The problem with that is that most of them either charge an entry fee or are inside a restaraunt that appreciates you to purchase their food in order to play on their playground. We are blessed enough to have a play area in our mall that is great for young children. My girls love to play there, and best of all - it's FREE! The only drawback to that is that it is on the other side of town and we all know that with gas prices it's not always logical to drive across town when there is an outdoor playground within walking distance from our home. Here are a few free or very inexpensive ideas for outings with the kiddos:
- Parks
- School Playgrounds (during summer ours are available for anyone to use)
- Public Library- Our library offers story-time at different times throughout the week. While we are there, we check out books and DVD's. We use them at home instead of renting movies or ordering pay-per-view.
- Go for a walk-I usually push my youngest daughter in the stroller, and my oldest thinks it is ever-so-awesome to push her baby doll in her stroller right along next to me.
- Local Museums- Some offer a free day during the week and most are relatively inexpensive to enter, so check in your area to see what is available.
- Zoo- We love the zoo. Our city is probably not big enough to have one, but we are blessed with one anyways! We don't go there too terribly often, but we do enjoy it when we do.
- Church- Since becoming involved in our church, we have more of a social life than we ever have since becoming parents. It is amazing how God will put people in your path with similar aged kids, similar interests, and similar faiths if you just trust Him!
That pretty much summarizes what WE do as a family that is free or frugal. We do go bowling or swimming from time to time, but those are things that we do as a special treat. Go here for a few more ideas, some are less kid friendly than others but might give you mommies some ideas for fun entertainment for yourselves.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Tired Thursday, again - Money Saving Tip #4
Does that look like a stack of bills to you? I hope so, because that's what it's supposed to be. :)So, onto the 4th tip I have for you guys that can save some major money. This one might seem pretty obvious to some too, but it really can help alot if you've never thought of it before. First, think of all of your bills:Water, Electricity, Gas, Cable, Internet,Phone etc. Next, if you need to, get them out and check out your rate. I personally have a pretty good idea (okay, I know exactly, call me a nerd if you want) of what all of my bills are and how much I pay each month. If you don't, carefully examine your bills and see if there are areas that you could cut back. I recently called to try and lower my cell phone plan. The rep told me that I was already on the lowest plan, but if I added the smallest text msg. package for $5 per month, I would actually save myself money in the long run because I was paying by the text and charging almost $10 a month just doing a few texts. Now, I can use up to 500 texts and only pay $5 bucks, and save myself some money.
This is just an example. Most water companies or city-owned utilities are going to have a flat rate, and you pay for what you use plus whatever lovely fees they choose to charge, and if you don't like it, then you can find another source of water. In our area, our electricity is de-regulated. If you don't know what that means, google it. Just kidding. :) That means that we are able to choose who we pay for our electricity. If you are deregulated, I suggest that you go to the website www.powertochoose.org and find which electric provider can offer you the lowest rate per killowat hour and also does not charge any fees. When we did this, our electric bill dropped significantly and we were able to save alot.
Some people would also suggest cutting out cable or satellite completely, but when you are married to the man that I am, that is simply not going to be an option. I would be okay with it, but as for the hubs, yeah, not so much. I am willing to compromise though, since he has completely and totally agreed to this debt reduction plan that I just kind of out of nowhere sprung on him! Until next time, happy penny pinching!!
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Savings Sunday- CVS $5 Challenge and Walmart Trip

1 Herbal Essences Shampoo 2.50
1 Herbal Essences Conditioner 2.50 (these were on sale for 2/$5)
1 Trial size CVS brand Hand Sanitizing Wipes 0.99
Total: 5.99
Used:
$2 off CVS skin care
$3/2 Herbal Essences coupon
Total OOP: $1.07
This doesn't earn any ECB's, but when you're out of shampoo like me, I can handle that:)
Now onto my Walmart trip. Let me just say that I am not a fan of WalMart. It is always busy, even at 8:30 pm which is when I went tonight; and taking 2 kids there is just not much fun. I have never shopped at Wally World since I began couponing, so I decided for my first time I would go after the kids were in bed, I could concentrate and find what I had on my list. Here's what I came out with:
I'm new at taking pics of my loot, so I just realized that you can't really tell what all I got. So, I suppose I'll list a quick rundown:2 Bomb Pops @ 2.33
2 Zantac 8 ct. @ 3.98
2 Bertolli Pasta Pouches @ 1.78
2 YoPlus Yogur 4 pk. @ 2.12
2 Johnson's Buddies @ 0.94
1 Purina Dog Food @ 4.48
1 Purina Cat Food @ 3.94
2 Kashi Crackers @ 2.78
1 Just Bunches! Cereal @ 2.50
1 All You Magazine @ 1.77
1 Great Value Beef Jerky @ 5.74
Total: 46.29
Used:
2-$5 Zantac Q's
2- $1 Bomb Pop Q's
2-$4 Purina Pet Food Q's
2-$2 Kashi Q's
1-$2 Just Bunches Q
2-$1 Bertolli Q's
2-$1 Johnson's Buddies Q's
2-$1 YoPlus Yogurt Q's
Grand Total After Coupons & Tax: 14.96 Cha CHING!! a total of $31.33 in savings! yay!
I didn't have a coupon for the beef jerky, obviously since it's Great Valu brand, but my husband truly believes that beef jerky is a necessary item that he might DIE without. Anyways, thats all I've got tonight. My hubby is summoning me to watch TV with him before bed. Sorry that I slacked on the money saving tip today, but there will be more tomorrow. See you then!
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Sunny Saturday - Money Saving Tip #3

Friday, July 11, 2008
Fun Friday - Money Saving Tip #2
Now on to my next money saving tip. Cooking from scratch. You'd be surprised how much money you spend when you buy all of those nifty, modern convenience foods. And I'm not just talking about boxed meals, I mean lots of things like tortillas, cereal bars, cookies, french toast sticks, biscuits, and many many more. I used to think that these type of things would be too time consuming to make, but once I started doing it I realized that I actually enjoyed it. I love to bake and I always have but just have never taken the time to do it since having kids.
My personal opinion is that these things are quite a bit tastier than their store-bought, boxed competitors, but maybe thats just me. :) Stay tuned!!
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Tired Thursday - Money Saving Tip #1
I have been contemplating all day what I should start off writing about. I have read so many awesome blogs and have learned such a huge amount of information in a really short time from them, that I just don't know if I can ever compare. So I won't try to :0) I'll just way whatever and if something profound comes out, then so be it! For the first few weeks, I'm going to post about things that we've done to cut back on spending and ways that we have been able to save money here and there.
One of the major things that we have done is going to seem pretty obvious to most people. We've stopped eating out. Okay, stopped eating out AS much is more like it. When we added up our expenses in June for eating out, I almost passed out. It was ridiculous. Even those ever-so-tempting dollar menus add up when you frequent them as often as we did. We have set ourselves a budget of $50 a month for eating out -which might seem like alot to some- but for us it is acually pretty low. Eating out was our entertainment. We did nothing else, besides church related activities. That has been a struggle, but the hubby and I have done really well with it for about the past 3 weeks. I even resisted the temptation of Little Caesar's tonight when I was exhausted and had no motivation to cook. I did it anyways, because I know that in the end, this WILL pay off. We just have to do it.
Stay tuned for tomorrow's money saving tip, it closely relates with tip #1!!
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
My First Official Blog!
Things with the Buse clan are going wonderful. Life is great and we couldn't feel more blessed!
We have recently begun the journey of becoming debt free! I say that with exclamation because we, I mean, I am so excited!! Dave Ramsey is my new hero, and if you haven't heard of him or read his book The Total Money Makeover, you should check him out, yes YOU! His ideas are so practical and his plan is one that will set anyone willing to do the work to get it done up for a fantastic retirement that is filled with faith, fun, and lots of giving! Which, is one of my favorite things.
Now I know most of you are probably thinking, GOSH, how far in debt are they?!?! Well, that's none of your business! Just kidding. We are really not in that bad of shape, but borrowing money is something that we hope to completely eliminate from our lives. And no I don't mean borrowing from family or people. I mean borrowing from lenders! I know it sounds crazy, but seriously...check out Dave Ramsey. From the library, of course...since that is FREE! We have a few small medical bills, one debt in collections, 2 of my student loans, and our car payment. The way we have it planned out we should be free of these debts in 18 mos.-2 yrs. How awesome would it be to only have a mortgage?!
So, this blog is going to be my attempt to hold myself accountable and also to share some money saving tactics with you, my readers, so that you too can enjoy the rewards of being frugal! We are just beginning this, so I will be sharing lots of linky love to some fellow bloggers that have truly inspired me to become financially fit! Thanks ladies!